Public holidays are meant to be a time for rest, celebration and connection. But according to the report released by the NSW Bureau of Crime Statistics and Research (BOCSAR), these days can also be some of the most dangerous of the year — particularly within the home.
The December 2024 report, “How much does crime spike over the holidays? The relationship between public holidays and assault,” shows a sharp rise in both domestic violence (DV) and non-domestic assaults on key public holidays. While this pattern has been suspected for years, the data paints a confronting but important picture.
The Holidays With the Highest Risk
BOCSAR’s research found:
- New Year’s Day is the most dangerous day of the year, with non-domestic assaults increasing by 166% and domestic violence assaults rising by 118% above the daily average.
- Christmas Day and Boxing Day see significant spikes in domestic violence incidents — around 78% higher than a typical day.
- Australia Day and ANZAC Day also see notable increases in non-domestic assaults, and Australia Day records a rise in DV-related incidents.
Alcohol consumption, emotional pressure, financial strain and family conflict are key contributors to these holiday spikes.
These findings confirm what many frontline services already know: while holidays can bring joy, they can also amplify tensions behind closed doors. For those already living in a difficult or an unsafe relationship, the festive season often escalates the risk.
What This Means for Families
Family lawyers frequently see an increase in enquiries in the weeks following Christmas and New Year. Sometimes, the holidays are the breaking point because it is the moment someone realises the situation at home is no longer safe, respectful or sustainable.
This does not just apply to physical violence. Many people experience:
- Coercive control
- Financial abuse
- Emotional or psychological abuse
- Isolation from family and friends
- Intimidation or threats
These behaviours often intensify during high-stress periods, making holidays especially dangerous for those already at risk.
If You’re Feeling Unsafe at Home
If the holiday season has highlighted issues in your relationship or if you have already been experiencing family violence — it’s important to know:
You are not alone, and you do have options.
You can seek support even if you are unsure whether you want to leave the relationship or want to understand your rights.
Some steps people often take include:
- Talk to someone you trust
A friend, family member or colleague can help you stay grounded and remind you that what you are experiencing is not your fault.
- Create a safety plan
This may include preparing important documents, arranging a safe place to go, or having an emergency bag ready. You do not have to act immediately but planning can make all the difference.
- Seek confidential legal advice early
A family lawyer can explain your rights, discuss what separation might look like, and help you understand things like:
- Parenting arrangements
- Staying in (or leaving) the family home
- Applying for an Apprehended Domestic Violence Order (ADVO)
- Your financial position and entitlements
- How to keep children safe during and after separation
You do not need to wait for a crisis moment to get advice. Early guidance empowers you to make informed, safe decisions.
- Contact support services
If you’re in immediate danger, call 000.
For confidential support:
- 1800 RESPECT (1800 737 732)
- NSW Domestic Violence Line: 1800 65 64 63
Thinking About Separation or Divorce?
The period after a public holiday — especially New Year — is usually when many people use the break to reflect on what they want their future to look like.
If you are considering separation, the most important things you can do are:
- Get clear advice early — this protects your rights and your children.
- Avoid making big decisions when emotions are high — speak to a professional first.
- Document incidents where safe to do so — this may be important later.
- Prioritise your safety and the safety of your children at all times.
A family lawyer can walk you through practical steps, answer your questions, and help you plan the path forward.
We’re Here to Help
If the latest BOCSAR findings resonate with your recent experience whether you have been involved in a domestic incident, you are feeling unsafe, or you are considering separation, Conditsis Lawyers Family Law team can offer confidential, compassionate legal advice.
We help clients navigate:
- ADVO applications
- Urgent court applications
- Separation and divorce
- Property and financial arrangements
You don’t have to face this alone.
If you are ready to understand your options, reach out to our Family Law team for a confidential discussion.
